Welcome to the Jungle

26229750_10159725390380063_5468251040388574190_nYou may remember last year when I wrote that Huffpost essay about my best friend getting married. Somehow within a blink of an eye, last weekend the big day finally came. And all of the emotions plus some were felt in all of the good ways.

So there’s a lot of awesome parts about the bride and groom- Kim and Greg. They actually met while singing karaoke. She belted out ‘Somebody to Love’ and he was so amazed he paid money to cut the line to get on the microphone to ask her out.

Needless to say, they’re a couple who are in perfect harmony (sorry, couldn’t resist a musical pun). Our friends always joked with Kim that when it was her turn to be married one day, she was going to sing at her own wedding. Well she did, but it was the absolute perfect surprise to her groom. Halfway through the reception, she picked up the microphone and told her groom ‘I wanted to sing a special song that really let’s you know what you have in store with me being your wife”

Welcome to the Jungle Baby!

I may be biased because she’s my best friend, but I think you’ll agree she killed this song.

Also, the video and the band playing behind Kim is an epic cover band called Bigg Romeo from Philadelphia. Check out their Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/biggromeo.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Quarter Life Evolution

12837576_10156558722655063_725832271_oEverything has changed but nothing has changed.

That’s how my best friend, now roommate, has chosen to sum up all of the shifting variables in both of our lives over the past month.

Initially those string of words felt on target, but the more I adopted the phrase during my explanation to others, a particular word kept tripping me up: change.


12422356_10156558722690063_919887838_oLooking around at each aspect of my life, change is bluntly apparent. The new apartment that I now call home, although only .6 miles from my former place, is a change that comes with a new roommate, although rather instead of three Craigslist strangers, it is my best friend since preschool.  

Annie the cat now has more room to roam, despite of her main priorities still being a prime seat on a windowsill for bird watching and the foot of my bed.

My roommate and I still send each other politically incorrect memes via Facebook Messenger throughout the day, but rather than coming home to watch Jeopardy solo after work there is now someone else there to yell criticism at the contestants through the screen.

12596592_10156558718450063_1844387073_o (1)Monday through Friday still consists of me spending most of my days managing digital marketing for a healthcare system, but will soon be doing so in an office space around the corner from the space that had been my dwelling since starting nearly a year and a half ago.

With it, a new title now sits under my email signature which has brought a bit a welcomed padding to the bi-weekly paycheck that has thankfully be consistently deposited into my bank account since late 2011.

12422356_10156558722690063_919887838_oDad still calls daily each morning during his commute to work, but when we talk about health ailments his newly developed symptoms  are the ones that take center stage rather than the chronic decline of my mother.

Still sitting on the same couch of my childhood home, my mother’s routine has not varied from fighting with dog over the blanket, becoming preoccupied with morning talk shows and smoking True Blue cigarettes like they are going out of style. Of course this is all speculation- because for the last several weeks I have removed her from my own routine.

The actual definition of change, according to Google ,is ‘to make or become different’. Despite all of moving the parts that have been settling into my life this month- I believe all of them (minus my father’s debacle) have stemmed from the foundation of finding myself that began almost 2 years ago.


12837301_10156558718410063_116564018_oEvolution.
The definition, according to Google, reads ‘
the gradual development of something, especially from a simple to a more complex form’.

Am I more complex form of myself? Perhaps if that includes finally implementing consistent practices of self-care, respecting self-imposed boundaries and strengthening an overall sense of self-awareness in everyday life. 

Maybe evolution is why after almost 27 years on this Earth, I finally feel comfortable in my own skin, no longer searching for some sense of relief.

Evolution may just be the relief of no longer being a stranger to myself.

Polar Bear Plunges, Melting Crayons and Sketchy Groupon Deals

One month into 365 in 365- and it’s been an experience to say the list. January has always been a month that would sort of float by, but when you have a lot of shit to do (365 things to be exact) it’s a motivator to live. From art projects, mini road trips and trying things that were never really on my radar before- it kicked of 2015 in a positive way.

Here are a few highlight’s I’ve been able to check off the list. It’s been hard to update because between working full time and living-a spare moment with enough brain energy to blog has been difficult to find! 

Walk like a Polar Bear

IMG_5083The biggest thing of the month was jumping into the icy Delaware River for the Polar Bear Plunge.  Somehow, I convinced my best friend of over 20 years, Nikki, to be my partner in this item. To my surprise she was even more excited than I was, and even went along with idea to wear matching polar bear hats. My family came to cheer us on the early Saturday morning we stood on the shore of Neshaminy State Park, waiting to plunge. Continue reading